Physical boundaries for chaste dating
Author: Kylie Kell Get to know yourself before you get to know someone else.It is important to know what your values and aspirations in life are before you start dating.Entertaining unchaste thoughts makes them more of a reality that can be acted on. Using seductive body language or wearing clothing that shows off parts of your body that cause impure thoughts should be avoided.Act and dress in a way that causes others to respect you as a person instead of treating you like an object.
Do not wait until you start making out to have the talk because you leave yourself open to fail in your endeavor to stay chaste.Otherwise, you can start to form them around the person you are dating instead of actually following your inner most desires. Work on building a friendship before becoming exclusive boyfriend and girlfriend.Getting to know them before the physical part of your relationship starts will keep your mind from being clouded and help you to see clear warning signs in the relationship. If you wait until you are involved with someone and have passions and desires already building up, then you will convince yourself to push the boundaries in order to quench them.Set yourself up for success, so that you both are on the same page.
Watching a movie under a blanket in the basement when your girlfriend’s parents are out of town is a bad idea.By that standard, some of the Catholics on here say that even french kissing is sinful (also based on some papal encyclical that gets tossed around).